Wellness & Self-Care Toolkit
Wellness and Self-Care for Your Team

Self, Staff Team, Client Families: How They All Matter (Marguerite Ham)
- Slides (PDF)
- 10 Rules for the Ride of Your Life (PDF)
- Mindfulness Exercises You Can Do Every Day (PDF)
- Crucial Conversations (PDF)
- Cultivating Mindfulness (PDF)
“The Challenge of Caring”
Pie Chart Your Life (Courtesy of Dr. Davana Pilczuk)
- Handout (PDF)
Success and Stress: A Different but More Effective Way to View Both (Dr. Davana Pilczuk, PhD)
- Audio Recording (MP3)
- Slides (PPT)
- Handout 1: Four Horsemen Student Guide (PDF)
Handout 2: Sleep Worksheet (PDF)
Handout 3: Multitasking Test (PDF)
Free Mindfulness Apps Worthy of Your Attention (Mindful.org)
Creating a Championship Mindset for Your Staff Team (Dr. Gregory Dale)
Nine Steps to a Sustainable Workplace Wellness Program (Ragan Communications)
Building Emotional Resistance Begins by Understanding Your Purpose and Appreciating Your Challenges (The Bulletin)
Resolving Conflict Through Effective Communication (The Bulletin)
A Better Way of Looking at Stress and Business Performance (The Bulletin)
Got EQ? (Marguerite Ham)
Mindset is a Choice! (Marguerite Ham)
The Difference Between Coaching, Leading and Managing (Marguerite Ham)
Self-Compassion Will Make You a Better Leader (Harvard Business Review)
Understanding Compassion Fatigue (Good Therapy)
Wellness and Self-Care for Families
How the Family Manages Traumatic Loss (Dr. Bill and Debbie Hoy)
- Audio Recording (MP3)
- Handout (PDF)
When You Are Called to Care: A Humorous Guide to Surviving Yourself as a Giver (Karyn Ruth White)
- Audio Recording (MP3)
- Handout (PDF)
What Makes a Great Life (Eileen O'Grady)
Self-Care Resources (On Target Living)
Self-Care Handbook: Caring for Families & Caring for Yourself (Dr. Alan Wolfelt)
Use this handbook to explore effective self-care techniques, specially designed to help funeral service professionals
maintain a healthy work/life balance and prevent burnout.
The handbook features tips, guidance, quizzes and journaling prompts that use proven methods to help funeral service
professionals:
- Evaluate experiences, thoughts, and feelings
- Manage stress
- Navigate a path to self-care
- Uncover a deeper sense of self-understanding
Click here to download the handbook.
Funeral Service & Stress: Caring for Yourself While You Care for Those You Serve (Dr. Alan Wolfelt — Hosted by Batesville)
Grief Therapy Dogs Help Families in Ways Humans Can't (The Bulletin)
Wellness, Self-Care & Inspiration During Crisis
- Mindful Moment: How to Meditate (Marguerite Ham)
- Going Through a COVID Depression (The Bulletin)
- How is isolation affecting your employees during COVID-19? (Ragan Wellness)
- Acknowledging and Dealing with Burnout (Dr. Davana Pilczuk, PhD)
- How COVID-19 is Making Us Better Funeral Professionals (Funeral Directors Life)
- Simple Self-Care Practices to Balance Your Work and Life (Chelsea Hanson)
- Grief and social distancing: How Indiana funeral homes are helping families seek closure. An article and interview with Dr. Alan Wolfelt (IndyStar)
- An interesting historical review of the 1918 flu pandemic and how it affected the funeral profession. (Todd Van Beck)
- Emotional Intelligence: A Pandemic and Isolation Coping Tool (Chicago Executive Coaching)
- COVID-19 Self-Isolating Tips
- COVID-19 Symptom Monitoring Tips
- A Little Levity in the Time of Crisis (Ron Culberson):
- The Drive-In Funeral: Celebrating a Life in an Era of Social Distancing (Dan Madden | Stark Memorial)
- TED Connects: Community and Hope — TED Talks are always a great resource for information. Check out this episode of TED Connects, featuring Chris Anderson, head of TED, and Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates as they discuss Community & Hope.
- Be the Calm in the Storm: Inspirational Video (Marguerite Ham)
- Video to Inspire Positivity Within a Community (Glenn Funeral Home)
- Combat Coronavirus Anxiety (Muse.com)
- 10 Ways to Cultivate Kindness While Social Distancing (PDF) (Linda Cohen Consulting)
Courtesy of Dr. Alan Wolfelt — Center of Loss and Life Transition:
- Coping with Your Grief over the Uvalde Murders
- Sorry for Your Loss, Now Get Back to Work (Published in The Atlantic)
- Waking Up to Gratitude (PDF) (Published in The Director)
- Walking the Wilderness Together (PDF)
- Touch Starvation: How to Make up for the Loss of Touch
- The Loss of Human Touch During Pandemic
- Five Pillars of Self-Care
- Tell Me How to Grieve (PDF)
- Nurturing Hope in Difficult Times (PDF)
- When One Funeral Is Not Enough (PDF)
- The Seesaw of Resilience and Vulnerability (PDF)
- Funeral Directors, We Need You! |The Five Pillars of Basic Self-Care During the Coronavirus Pandemic (PDF)
- How to Reframe the Difficult COVID-19 Lockdown Period as an Opportunity
Courtesy of Dr. Davana Pilczuk, PhD — The Human Performance Group LLC:
- How to Help Someone Through a Layoff
- Humorous Perils of Working From Home
- Employees Need Stress Help Now
- Respect is Key to Employees Feeling Valued
- 5 Foods That Can Boost Your Brain Power
- Learn Your Team's Love Languages
- Managing Your Team Through COVID19: 4 Tips for Performing Under Stress
- Dr D's Shorties: Circadian Low
- Dr D's Shorties: 2 Tips for a Better Night's Sleep